Bob Geldof speaks out on PAS

February 10, 2015 By Shared Parenting Confessional in All Confessions, Psychological Abuse-child

“I cannot even say the words. A huge emptiness would well in my stomach, a deep loathing for those who would deign to tell me they would ALLOW me ACCESS to my children – those I loved above all, those I created, those who gave meaning to everything I did, those who were the very best of us two and the absolute physical manifestation of our once blinding love. Who the hell are they that they should ALLOW anything? REASONABLE CONTACT!!! Is the law mad? Am I a criminal? An ABSENT parent. A RESIDENT/NON-RESIDENT parent. This Lawspeak which you all speak so fluently, so unthinkingly, so hurtfully, must go.

To my daughters

February 10, 2015 By Shared Parenting Confessional in All Confessions, Psychological Abuse-child

One father shares his heartache about the separation from his daughters.

To my daughters,

I miss you and love you very much. I promise we will get through this abuse and have a normal life someday soon. You are both so brave and strong to be dealing with this, hang in there, daddy is here for you.

xoxoxo

Parental Alienation Victims July 30, 2011
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Parental-Alienation-Victims/179750045416800

Questions from one father

February 10, 2015 By Shared Parenting Confessional in All Confessions, Parental Experiences

A father asks questions about being excluded from his daughters’ life.

The answer to each question is a resounding NO!

Anonymous

I just want my baby girl back.

I was there when she was born.

I was there changing diapers and feeding her, getting up in the middle of the night with her to let her mom sleep.

I taught her to ride a bike, to tie her shoes, to climb trees.

I took her to her first day of school, I volunteered in her classes, I cooked her dinner, picked out clothes, washed those clothes and taught her how to fold them.

I did homework with her, read stories to her, ticked her in each night and kissed her good night.

We sold lemonade together on the street corner and I sold Girl Scout cookies with her on the side walk at the store.

I took her to gymnastics, and to soccer and watched all her games.

I combed her her hair, we did our nails together and watched movies together over and over and over.

Her mother and I have separated. I went from a stay home dad and her primary re model to a visitor who requires supervised visitation?

Now it’s in her best interest that I’m no longer around? Because her mother and I separated?

Now, I suddenly only get 4 days a month with my baby and my every move and spoken word to her needs to be monitored, recorded, reviewed and critiqued?

I am only a father so I am disposable?

Only required if and when the mother deems I am needed?

I can’t sleep at night, I can’t function during the day, what is she thinking? That I don’t live her or care about her anymore?

That her daddy has abandoned her?

I can’t keep paying for these supervised visits.

Am I to just fade away and disappear?

I just want my baby girl back.

The Fathers’ Rights Movement FB posted 2-10-15
https://www.facebook.com/Fathers4kids?fref=nf

“Live for my 4 days a month”

February 10, 2015 By Shared Parenting Confessional in All Confessions, Parental Experiences

One father expresses heartache and how he lives with a shadow over him because he is not able to raise his children.

I live my live for 4 days a month. My heart is broke. Every day. As I sit here on my weekend I don’t get them. I feel such hurt. But I have to play nice or I won’t get them next weekend. I feel a shadow over my head. A gloom. I here the girls running around. I see little things they leave as reminders. In my tiny apartment. I miss them. I know many have it worse off. But I still sit here in pain. I was made to be a daddy. And it’s gone.

New step dad has taken over my role. And, I wasn’t the reason for the divorce.

Dear Son

February 9, 2015 By Shared Parenting Confessional in All Confessions, Parental Experiences

One daddy’s heartache!

As shared on FB SPAN Stop Pental Alienation Now, August 8, 2014

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