Why??

 

This young artist shares an array of thoughts in the drawing called “Broken Family”.  This child appears in the center of a very compartmentalized drawing.  The question WHY? at the center stands out.  

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“Broken Family” drawing

#68 “Why?”

 

Mine

 

A 13-year-old girl shares “Experiencing the Stress of Her Parent’s Divorce.”  This child is clearly in the middle and trying to have a voice.  Neither parent is listening.  Both parents seem intent on pulling her in their direction.  The dad is portrayed as using more force, feet firmly planted, leaning back and trying to gain a strong hold.  Note how his hand is clasped tightly with his daughters.  The mom seems to have a lighter grasp.  Interestingly, the shoelaces are tied with a heart shaped bow.  

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“Experiencing the Stress of Her Parent’s Divorce” by a 13 year-old girl.

http://www.kwtherapy.com/art_therapy.html

 

#66. “Mine”

Being Pulled In Two

 

This is an excellent portrayal of divorce for some children.  Sadly, this represents the profound impact divorce can have on the child.  

This drawing reveals several key points.  This child is being pulled in two directions by a VERY thick rope indicating they are being pulled by two strong forces (each parent) . Each door is a different color representing the two homes.  Both doors opens to a vast darkness indicating an aura of sadness and the (scary ?) unknown.  The feet are firmly planted on the floor by an external item indicating determination and efforts to stay where they are.  The facial expression, the mouth,  eyes closed and tears streaming down indicate intense emotions.  In summary, this pic is a heart wrenching representation of divorce.

Child pic pulled between doors

Divorce:  A Journey Through The Kids’ Eyes

This movie features emotional statements, testimonies and art by kids describing their emotional experiences before and after their parents divorce.

Trailer link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9v9K0MVAg-8

Split Family

 

A sad depiction of divorce from the child’s perspective.  This dad is totally split from his family.  From one angle, this looks like the dad is walking toward his family.  If so, is this what the child is hoping will happen?

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Drawing: Divorce is My Burden

 

This picture show the feelings and thoughts of the burden of divorce. 

There is a ‘rumor’ that this pic was created by a parent.  If true, this makes the  elements of the picture more distressing.  This indicates the parent is aware of  how the divorce experience impacts their child’s life.  The drawing, regardless of who completed the pic, reveal sadness and sorrow. 

 

Divorce is My Burden

Child pic Divorce is my burden m

 

 

 

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Drawings: In The Middle

 

These pictures show the feelings and thoughts of having to choose and being in the middle. 

There is a ‘rumor’ that these pics were created by a parent.  If true, this makes the  elements of the pictures more distressing.  This indicates the parent is aware of  how the divorce experience impacts their child’s life.  The drawings, regardless of who completed the pic, reveal sadness and sorrow. 

 

Who Should I Choose

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Torn in Half

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Cut in Half

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Split Down the Middle

Child pic How divorce feels to me m

 

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