Sadness

 

Sometimes ‘leaving’ one parent is difficult for young ones.  A child is trying to adjust to not having full access to both parents.  A very emotional experience for a child.  Parents working together can make the exchange less emotional.  I hope someone is validating this child’s  emotional needs on an immediate and long term basis.  

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#257, Sadness

Family Drama

 

A pic showing a family divided.  Mom comforting a young one.  Dad in the background with a sad look on his face.  He is holding the had of a child.  Of concern, is the angle.  Dad seems to be trying to stand on a hill (?).  There seems to be a reflection of water or ice-indicating he is slipping.  A very dramatic show of divorce and family drama.  

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Miki De Goodaboom, Family Drama

#256, Family Drama

Victims of PAS

 

The reality of PAS if the impact on the child!  How true these statements are.  Shared Parenting is for the child!  Parents have an obligation to see that their child have what they need in life in order to develop into a happy and healthy individual.  Shared Parenting offers the child the best of both worlds…..which is both parents!

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PAS is now quite common.  Numerous support forums have been established because of PAS.  PAS is real!  There are thousands of heart-wrenching calls and letters from parents whose children have been taught to fear or hate them. Both mothers and fathers can be perpetrators of Parental Alienation, but the true victims are always the children.  Please don’t make your child a victim of PAS.  Parent your child.  Share Parenting with your ex.  Think to put the child first.  PAS means you are putting the hatred you have for your ex BEFORE the Love you have for your child!.  Love your child MORE than you hate your ex.

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# 255, Victims of PAS

Broken Home

 

A rather dramatic piece.  Child is at the father’s feet,  Mother in the distance.  The ominous being holding a weapon of some sort keeping guard.  By the title, there is family discord.  I hope they can work things out and stay together!

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Sandy Rubini, Broken Home

# 253, Broken Home

Don’t Know

 

A unique perception of divorce!  Showing the present and the past.  An outline of the parents upside down in red below the child’s lookout.  Several outlines of the parents in this piece perhaps representing the many thoughts.  The X seems to be over a female figure(?).  The lost look on the child’s face.  Holding on to what is in front of them looking out into the vast openness of a happier time.  

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Ana Maria Edulescu, Don’t Know

#252, Don’t Know

Stop Fighting

 

WOW!!!!! A very revealing pic!  The focus on the face.  The tears,  Seeing the parents reflection in the eyes of the child is quite riveting.  An unfortunate experience of divorce.  

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Alex Thomas.  Stop Fighting

#251, Stop Fighting

Parent and Child

 

One artist’s depiction of divorce showing a sketch of a parent and child.  There seems to be distance as they are not holding hands.  Looks like the child is reaching out to their parent.

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This artwork is made into a variety of items including a phone case.  Which is somewhat disturbing as there is no head on the parent.  Very curious.

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Tom Gowanlock.  Bury St Edmunds, United Kingdom.

#249, Parent and Child

Devastation of Divorce

 

One parent (father), shares thoughts on missing his daughter. As in many cases, the separation of parent and child is often due to rulings of the Family Court system.

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Anonymous

I am so broken. I just want to hold my baby girl again.

Tell her I Love her. Tell her I never abandoned her.

How can the courts do this to our children?

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#248, Devastation of Divorce

4 Days a Month

 

This father shares the reality of the custody agreement issued by the courts. How true!  How can one develop an emotional bond, establish a loving relationship, teach life lessons and instill a sense of security in 4 days a month.  This family could benefit from a custody do-over!  

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Anonymous

4 days a month is devastating as it is. But let’s not get carried away, 4 days a month is really only Saturday morning to sunday afternoon. Maybe 60 hours a month. That doesn’t leave enough time for a healthy meaningful relationship.

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Shared on The Fathers’ Rights Movement, fathers4kids.

#247, 4 Days a Month

Soul Eater

 

A startling picture of divorce for one individual!This mother is asking her daughter to lie to her dad.  Several things stand out in this pic:  the single green eye; eye of envy, perhaps.  The child is sobbing and crying because this is a sad situation for a child to be put in. While yes, the mother is comforting the child; note that the mother is named ‘Soul Eater’.

With PA, if one parent is trying to ‘WIN, then the child is losing at some level!  A very emotional depiction of divorce.

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Deviant Art, “it’s ok to cry Sky…..by Skylar8493

Link to artwork and background story of artwork:

http://www.deviantart.com/art/It-s-ok-to-cry-Sky-546843065

#246, Soul Eater